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So last few times I've gone out with work in the last month, I've got a little too friendly with a female work colleague I've known for a few years. Touching, kissing etc after alot of alcohol. She's not a stunner but cute enough. No big deal, a bit of fun.

She now comes in to work yesterday and informs me she has broken up with her boyfriend of 5 years who she still lives with. WTF.

I think she genuinely believes I'm stepping in to fill the void. Chick won't stop texting me, following me around at work.

Her former boyfriend is going away for a couple of weeks soon and I'm invited.

I kind of want this to stop, office romances are cringe. She's a little too overbearing after just a few kisses. Fuck knows what she'll be like if I fuck her. It may things worse.

What should I do? Run a mile or run with it?

So last few times I've gone out with work in the last month, I've got a little too friendly with a female work colleague I've known for a few years. Touching, kissing etc after alot of alcohol. She's not a stunner but cute enough. No big deal, a bit of fun. She now comes in to work yesterday and informs me she has broken up with her boyfriend of 5 years who she still lives with. WTF. I think she genuinely believes I'm stepping in to fill the void. Chick won't stop texting me, following me around at work. Her former boyfriend is going away for a couple of weeks soon and I'm invited. I kind of want this to stop, office romances are cringe. She's a little too overbearing after just a few kisses. Fuck knows what she'll be like if I fuck her. It may things worse. What should I do? Run a mile or run with it?

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[–] • 13 pts

If you knew she had a boyfriend, then you're a douche bag and should have known this could happen.

If you didn't you should tell her what happened is against your code and it can't go on.

[–] • 5 pts

If she would cheat on him, she will certainly cheat on you.

[–] • 5 pts

You’re fooling with a whore who gets drunk and cheats on her live-in boyfriend. And you work with her. I hope this is at a replaceable job and not a career workplace.

This won’t end well. I’d do what others recommend and start recording everything.

[–] • 5 pts

Change workplace ?

the way you tell us, you have a grenade in hand and the clock is ticking

[–] • 4 pts

How old are the people involved? This is some rookie mistakes. I hope there is no kid in this unfortunate situation.

[–] • 4 pts

Never shit where you work

[–] • 1 pt

Every dog knows not to shit where it eats or sleeps.

[–] • 3 pts

Sexual assault charges incoming.

You screwed her life up since she wants you to fill the open role you helped create and has told the other guy to fuck off.

[–] • 3 pts

Sit down with her have a chat about how you are NOT interested in a longterm relationship, maneuver her to say it WAS just a bit of fun from HER side and that it was never a serious thing.

this part is important: GET THE ENTIRE CONVERSATION ON TAPE!!!

I cannot stress this enough, get the entire convo on tape and keep it, when she accuses you of ANYTHING untoward with HR, get the recording- play it for HR and live your life free and unfettered.

then RUN!

[–] • 0 pt

She's also insinuating having a casual sexual relationship when Ive hinted that I don't want anything serious. Is this wise?

[–] • 3 pts

Do not engage in ANY sexual contact--rape charges ahead. Just try and effect that which I wrote earlier.

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

Is she good ma material? Don't let the opportunity pass by you. One day, you'll wake up old and there won't be any more opportunities. Not entirely true, but you get the idea. You don't want to try and make kids at age 40, if you can help it.

[–] • 1 pt

Is she good ma material? I’d say no seeing how she’s already cheating on her current boyfriend.

[–] • 1 pt

Change jobs. Don’t have sex with whores.

[–] • 0 pt

Best answer. Go before said whore goes to HR and causes a stink.

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