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I'm 35 and had a relatively normal American experience in my 20s, being sexually risky and not making smart choices. I came out with no children or baby mama drama.

Now facing what we do and gone through what we have, I feel pretty lucky that me and my girlfriend don't have children. Seems like a liability. I've had a gut feeling since I was a kid that kids wouldn't be a good idea for me.

Personally, I'd have ended up in jail with an assault charge during the covid days if i found out of any teacher BS and my kid

I'm 35 and had a relatively normal American experience in my 20s, being sexually risky and not making smart choices. I came out with no children or baby mama drama. Now facing what we do and gone through what we have, I feel pretty lucky that me and my girlfriend don't have children. Seems like a liability. I've had a gut feeling since I was a kid that kids wouldn't be a good idea for me. Personally, I'd have ended up in jail with an assault charge during the covid days if i found out of any teacher BS and my kid

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[–] • 14 pts

My children are the best part of my life. None of them planned, but all part of God's plan. All are being raised up in the church, home schooled, not vaxx'd, and in a free state where we can do what we want on our land.

[–] • 5 pts

Happy for you let me be clear

Its just so scary to me being responsible for 3 or 4 extra mouths to feed in a time like this

The disappointment and failure I would feel would push me to suicde

[–] • 7 pts

You would be surprised at how easy it is. It’s literally what you were built for. Also the unbelievable love that you feel for and from a child will (most likely) erase any suicidal thought. It sure did for me.

[–] • 2 pts

I have four kids .I hunt, fish, and garden to fill in the gaps. To me it's not scary at all we will survive with what we have . You will be surprised what you are capable of when you are pushed .

[–] • 1 pt

Nobody is ever ready to be a parent. Just ask 20 year old me. Unless you are addicted to drugs and alcohol I seriously doubt you would disappoint or fail your children. As a man you work hard for your family and provide, no matter what it takes. They see that hard work and dedication and it means something.

[–] • 4 pts

I'm convinced there is no experience on earth that matches having a family. So grateful for my kids!

[–] • 0 pt

Why so?

[–] • 0 pt

The experience of having kids is essentially what life is all about. It's the single most enriching experience my life has had. Seeing them born into this world, their growth, the trials and tribulations you face with them, it's all worth it, every bit of it. The love I have for my children is unequaled and it's a type of love you can't know until you have children.

[–] • 3 pts

I used to think I was smart by not having children, until I did. Now all I regret was that I had them later than I should have. I will have less time in this world with them than I could have, and they will have less time with their dad. Time is the one thing that even the rich cannot buy. Don't waste it.

[–] • 0 pt

Exactly.

Didn't knock up my wife until her thirties.

I only got two kids.

Greatest mistake of my life

[–] • 3 pts

Sounds like you're a degenerate. I'm glad you don't have kids, too.

[–] • 0 pt

What are your kids like?

[–] • 2 pts

Well thanks to homeschooling, good genes and not putting a mask on her, she is years ahead of her kids her age that go to traditional schools.

[–] • 0 pt

Hows that? Ahead meaning what specifically?

She aiming for MIT?

[–] [deleted] • 3 pts

Our perspectives are quite opposite, probably in more big-picture things than this. I am not afraid of death. I am afraid of wasting my life and the gifts I have been given, including children. (Yeah, that does call into question time spent on this site!)

Children, though a big responsibility (and yes, on the balance sheet don't appear to be "assets" for quite a few years), are a blessing. We are having as many as physically possible!

[–] • 2 pts

You still got time. have some kids now.

[–] • 1 pt

I'm sad for you Raising children is difficult , requires sacrifice , many sleepless nights . However there is some truly mystical , spiritual , awe inspiring watching the baby you , your woman , and God created being literally birthed into the world. Holding that newborn baby you feel like you almost know what the love of God must be like.

I respectfully ask you to reconsider .

[–] • 0 pt

difficult , requires sacrifice , many sleepless nights .

no thanks.

[–] • 0 pt

A man does those things

[–] • 0 pt

I wish I could be a anime gurl

[–] • 1 pt

Chemo fucked me up; I'm worried about passing that on, and want to have a house before being responsible for any kids. It's not off the table just... Not yet.

[–] • 1 pt

You got to live in the right town to raise kids for sure today that is one truth. You can't be in a place like Los Angeles or some other scum hell hole and raise kids. You've got to be in an area that's the right area. And if you're living in some scum hell hole you got to ask yourself why. It's usually some ego trip you want to be where the cool people are you think you're going to make it there somehow you're going to do something else. It's all ego trip get the hell out of those places and get to a normal living area. Get off your ego trip. Move.

[–] • 1 pt

So when you are 50 and your girlfriend has left you because there is no real reason not to ride other cocks since you don't have kids then who will take care of you?

You better have lots of money and all essentials completely owned because servants are expensive and no one else will care when you are too tired to do the essentials.

And no you won't have the courage to kill yourself.

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