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I work out, have a good amount of money, relatively good looking by white standards. However, everywhere i look, it's one of two types of women. The first one look like , and completely dumb as bricks. The second is post 30s, and somehow they all look like like . My options are limited. And churches have virtually no women in them, the ones there are usually married from a very young age. Ideas?

I work out, have a good amount of money, relatively good looking by white standards. However, everywhere i look, it's one of two types of women. The first one look like [this](https://i.4cdn.org/b/1633530739735.jpg), and completely dumb as bricks. The second is post 30s, and somehow they all look like like [this](https://image.cnbcfm.com/api/v1/image/105999673-1562087336516gettyimages-1151688822.jpeg?v=1562087386). My options are limited. And churches have virtually no women in them, the ones there are usually married from a very young age. Ideas?

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[–] • 9 pts

These days every man's options are limited because women are destroyed by feminist propaganda. As a widower, look for a group designed for widows/widowers. At least you know they aren't lesbians or just had their 4th divorce. Or try volunteering at places that appeal to women such as animal rescue or gardening.

[–] • 5 pts

You're only as screwed as you limit yourself.

[–] • 4 pts

Baltic States. Seriously.

[–] • 0 pt

I'm pretty sure you can't go over there right now unless you have the jewvid-19 jab. Even then, is there any particular reason why you like the Baltics?

[–] • 0 pt

If you haven't faked a card, you're fucking up. Getting harder to do.

Baltic States are cheaper, more traditional, etc. Your wealth and stability means more.

[–] • 1 pt

Over 3,000 Americans have been imprisoned for producing fake vaccine cards to leave the country. Don’t fake a card for something that’ll actually get checked unless you’re paying a corrupt doctor to put you in the system

[–] • 0 pt

The card is checked electronically for authenticity and you can't just fake it. Additionally, Estonia is one of the most e-connected countries where you virtually use your electronic id-card online, so it's not like you can just show them a fake card you bought on the internet.

Apart from that, women there are very beautiful and feminine and from what I have heard more tradition oriented compared to other European countries.

[–] • 2 pts

How old are you?

[–] • 4 pts

early 30s, wife died from sudden onset aneurysm

[–] • 3 pts

You're fine.

Or at least, no more fucked than anybody else. Possibly less.

The only "difficult" truth is that you have to look at women 25 and younger, because the ones your age that are worth marrying...are married.

So do that. You're not remotely too old for them. Be clear about what you're looking for.

And maybe have a rebound first. Get it out of your system. Don't look for the love of your life while you're still processing your heterosexuality in your wife's absence. A low-stakes relationship is exactly what the situation calls for. You can be honest about all that too.

Dating apps are garbage, but you can sometimes find quality women on them because what alternatives exist is not obvious to women either.

You may also have to change the dating pool you're fishing in. It IS worth moving for. Somebody said Baltic states, and that's not crazy. I disagree that cities are inherently bad, just be smart about which city. The more options you have, the pickier you can be.

[–] • 1 pt

Yes goy, sleep around goy, it’s better for your future marriage, goy

[–] • 2 pts

Im on Zoosk. Its an over 50 dating site. Lots of good looking women "never married, no kids" Theres a reason for that. Theyve been riding the carousel for 35+ years and are unmarriageable.

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

They've been hacked several times. I have the db's.

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

Do you really need pussy? Check out MGTOW and be happy with just yourself

[–] • 1 pt

Aim young, legal-24. Find the least damaged, train her well and are where it goes. No Shame in looking online, you just have to be careful. Certain semi vanilla kinks are decent spots, lots of women like older men that are put together. It'll be hard work, women are at least mentally damaged these days, you need to repair that.

[–] • 0 pt

Make sure they had both parents stick around

[–] • 0 pt

This is big, the father needs to be active in her life and not a soy. He doesn't need to be hard right, just a man in the strictest sense of the word.

[–] • 0 pt

Yea I have tons of experience with girls that have no father's. They have no sympathy for men. They will lie and lie and lie but smile in your face while they do it. Also they seem to not have boundaries.

[–] • 1 pt

All the hot chicks you can find are Azn?

[–] • 1 pt

So what you're saying is young women look young and old women look old?

[–] • 1 pt

Yeah, we're all in the same boat. What we really need is some kind of event, movement or ideology where with some kind of permanence or something that can be iterates, where we can help young people copulate. Online dating services definitely aren't enough. There needs to be a physical presence and this hypothetical thing we're coordinating needs to be tethered to virtue in some manner.

[–] • 0 pt

I feel your pain. I'm sorry you'r wife passed on brother, I hope you find another companion some day but realize it will be difficult. Fortunately, women tend to like older men that are stable more than some kid that barely has a career. I recently gave up on a girl I loved deeply because she was just too self absorbed and immature. I hate it but young girls are mostly retarded, sluts, or some combination. The older ones are either used up or badly aging. The rare good women that are virgin, late 20s to early 30s and sensible are almost nonexistent. I'm 27 and have yet to have a relationship stronger than being friends. It's just a shitty dating market right now. Your best bet is if you have any female family, maybe they can screen some of their friends for you. I've been seeing a friend of a family member recently and I'm taking my time being careful with her but I think maybe she might actually be a good one. Only time will tell, but the point is, if you have any friends or family, try and see if they know someone. That way hopefully you don't get lost in a field of used up skanks.

[–] • 0 pt

Honestly, I'm gonna follow God, started working out, and focusing on my church and community. I may never find someone, but at least I have other people I can count on. And if it never happens, not a big deal to me anymore

[–] • 0 pt

Thats the only plan that makes any sense. Good luck, and I hope you find your way to someone decent.

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