The only people who bring up the incel meme are closeted faggots who secretly want to get fucked by their fathers. I know my experience growing up was somewhat subjective and based on my area/city. But there are trends I've seen confirmed elsewhere. I can see why you have the conclusions you do but it's not my analysis. I agree with you regarding what women look for. My add on would be that most of these guys are fake as fuck chest beaters and for the most part women are less than incapable of making the distinction. Ultimately in today's matriarchal society, it is women who select. Men simply become what they see women want. It is a useless argument at this point because both sexes are a complete mess. But it is ultimately up to women to adjust their preferences if they are to ever expect different results from men. Ignorance of this reality is not an excuse.