No. He's free to do what he wants, and I'm free to either accept it or not. Anything that threatens the safety of our family is stuff that I won't be accepting. Ditto vice versa, but priority number one for my husband and I is that the family comes above all else. The reality is - neither of us would be stupid enough to do that shit. Headgame fuckery is the realm of whores and degenerates and I am neither. Why would I need to "test the fitness of the man I'm making babies with" - I'm the one who he's chosen, and he's the one I've chosen.
You're probably one of the good ones then.
I try to be, at any rate. Not perfect, my #1 priority is to my husband and my family though. That being said I don't tolerate shit - but he doesn't deal out shit so its a moot point.
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