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So I could use a little advice I'm probably going to get a lot of flack for this but my life is stagnant right now As a woman over 30 I know the odds of finding a decent man are pretty slim and the odds of having a child as I'm past my prime are pretty much nonexistent. Honestly it kinda hurts knowing I let MSM brainwash me into thinking I had time. I looked into adoption but a friend who is a social worker told me that they won't give you a white baby, they force interracial adoptions so forget that. I feel unfulfilled and like I failed as a human. Advice appreciated. Edit: i am single because for the past 10 years i've been taking care of my elderly grandparents to keep them out of a nursing home. I also have a physical limp so that in itself is a deterrent.

So I could use a little advice I'm probably going to get a lot of flack for this but my life is stagnant right now As a woman over 30 I know the odds of finding a decent man are pretty slim and the odds of having a child as I'm past my prime are pretty much nonexistent. Honestly it kinda hurts knowing I let MSM brainwash me into thinking I had time. I looked into adoption but a friend who is a social worker told me that they won't give you a white baby, they force interracial adoptions so forget that. I feel unfulfilled and like I failed as a human. Advice appreciated. Edit: i am single because for the past 10 years i've been taking care of my elderly grandparents to keep them out of a nursing home. I also have a physical limp so that in itself is a deterrent.

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[–] 6 pts

Even a sperm donor is hard to come by as a Jew might do the old switcharoo.

If you are under 35 you have a shot at having a kid without downs, after 35 the odds jump drastically. I do not have the data but it would seem to be 5x higher chance every year past 35 or so? Though I understand that there are some promising treatments out there such as birthing other people's fertilized embryos.

I would recommend having a friend or acquaintance donate the sperm to you through a contract, no direct intercourse as that would make him liable for child support payments etc in most countries. This would mean you would have to pay him and waive all future responsibility, though he would still be entitled to interact with the child if he so desires.

Depends on your location I can see them pushing interracial adoptions, because of how many abandoned nogs there are due to prison or other irresponsible actions. The whiter the area the less likely that would happen, I suggest relocating to a white area, should have a better chance of adopting, though single mothers tend to really fuck up a kid without a father figure.

Christian dating sites might find you a man willing to have children this late. I am in my late 30s with kids, I want more kids myself but have been dating women in their 20s.

Good luck and Godspeed.

[–] -1 pt

single mother

fuck off, child abuser