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It's been some time since she passed, and yet it feels like her friends, her family, everyone has just abandoned her. No one wants to think to themselves, that she is dead. Instead it's like everyone is too busy being occupied and distracted by stupid games to understand that she died. The only person still fighting to stop her own parents insulting her seems to be me. I always knew my wife and i were a team, but still, it feels like the entire world has ganged up against her.

Even her supposed best friend has decided to completely ignore me, and pretend i dont exist. How does that honor her, when the going gets rough, just sod off and ignore people? And yet, it feels frustrating to keep this entire family mechanic alive, only to find that there isn't a reason to. This entire house of cards that is my family and her famiy, implodes as soon as i remove even an ounce of effort from my side. It feels like I'm living through Atlas Shrugged

PS: I know, lots of dead wife posts coming from me, makes for some nice therapy to get it out there.

It's been some time since she passed, and yet it feels like her friends, her family, everyone has just abandoned her. No one wants to think to themselves, that she is dead. Instead it's like everyone is too busy being occupied and distracted by stupid games to understand that she died. The only person still fighting to stop her own parents insulting her seems to be me. I always knew my wife and i were a team, but still, it feels like the entire world has ganged up against her. Even her supposed best friend has decided to completely ignore me, and pretend i dont exist. How does that honor her, when the going gets rough, just sod off and ignore people? And yet, it feels frustrating to keep this entire family mechanic alive, only to find that there isn't a reason to. This entire house of cards that is my family and her famiy, implodes as soon as i remove even an ounce of effort from my side. It feels like I'm living through Atlas Shrugged PS: I know, lots of dead wife posts coming from me, makes for some nice therapy to get it out there.

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[–] • 10 pts

Be happy toxic people are gone from your life, build a new one without them.

[–] • 6 pts

Good advice.

If they were 'her' friends and 'her' family, then you really have no reason to speak to them if they are not adding value to your life.

[–] • 1 pt

fair point, I thought i would try reaching out, but it seems everyone has moved on faster than i have. Just for the amount of praise within months after death, the reality of their behavior doesnt really match their perceived relationship to my wife, if that makes sense

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

You might be surprised how many people simply tolerate others.

[–] • 1 pt

Yeah create a new one with blackjack and hookers

[–] • 1 pt

Can't upvote this enough. Don't worry about them, you do you.