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It's been some time since she passed, and yet it feels like her friends, her family, everyone has just abandoned her. No one wants to think to themselves, that she is dead. Instead it's like everyone is too busy being occupied and distracted by stupid games to understand that she died. The only person still fighting to stop her own parents insulting her seems to be me. I always knew my wife and i were a team, but still, it feels like the entire world has ganged up against her.

Even her supposed best friend has decided to completely ignore me, and pretend i dont exist. How does that honor her, when the going gets rough, just sod off and ignore people? And yet, it feels frustrating to keep this entire family mechanic alive, only to find that there isn't a reason to. This entire house of cards that is my family and her famiy, implodes as soon as i remove even an ounce of effort from my side. It feels like I'm living through Atlas Shrugged

PS: I know, lots of dead wife posts coming from me, makes for some nice therapy to get it out there.

It's been some time since she passed, and yet it feels like her friends, her family, everyone has just abandoned her. No one wants to think to themselves, that she is dead. Instead it's like everyone is too busy being occupied and distracted by stupid games to understand that she died. The only person still fighting to stop her own parents insulting her seems to be me. I always knew my wife and i were a team, but still, it feels like the entire world has ganged up against her. Even her supposed best friend has decided to completely ignore me, and pretend i dont exist. How does that honor her, when the going gets rough, just sod off and ignore people? And yet, it feels frustrating to keep this entire family mechanic alive, only to find that there isn't a reason to. This entire house of cards that is my family and her famiy, implodes as soon as i remove even an ounce of effort from my side. It feels like I'm living through Atlas Shrugged PS: I know, lots of dead wife posts coming from me, makes for some nice therapy to get it out there.

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My situation is not quite as bad, but if my parents ever wish to flee to future communities they will have to undergo public lashings first so I get where you are coming from.

While you can't grieve for the dead forever, I don't see why they would speak ill of the dead though. Like what is there to gain from that?

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Because they were power tripping when she was alive, and saw her as a pawn for their own benefit. When she died, my MILs first plan of action was figuring out how to destitute and impoverish me by transferring all my funds into an irrevocable trust she had control over, whilst saddling me with the responsibilities of taking care of her son. These people didnt care about my wife when she was alive, and they certainly weren't going to start when she died

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Sounds like people to remove from your life without a second thought...

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I had tried reaching out to her at one point, and her first plan was to guilt me into thinking her death was my fault, and that i cheated on her side of the family by becoming independent. Then she went on to blame me for her own son's failure at being anything more than a basement dwelling loser. On second thought, screw it, there is zero point to maintain these relationships