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It's been some time since she passed, and yet it feels like her friends, her family, everyone has just abandoned her. No one wants to think to themselves, that she is dead. Instead it's like everyone is too busy being occupied and distracted by stupid games to understand that she died. The only person still fighting to stop her own parents insulting her seems to be me. I always knew my wife and i were a team, but still, it feels like the entire world has ganged up against her.

Even her supposed best friend has decided to completely ignore me, and pretend i dont exist. How does that honor her, when the going gets rough, just sod off and ignore people? And yet, it feels frustrating to keep this entire family mechanic alive, only to find that there isn't a reason to. This entire house of cards that is my family and her famiy, implodes as soon as i remove even an ounce of effort from my side. It feels like I'm living through Atlas Shrugged

PS: I know, lots of dead wife posts coming from me, makes for some nice therapy to get it out there.

It's been some time since she passed, and yet it feels like her friends, her family, everyone has just abandoned her. No one wants to think to themselves, that she is dead. Instead it's like everyone is too busy being occupied and distracted by stupid games to understand that she died. The only person still fighting to stop her own parents insulting her seems to be me. I always knew my wife and i were a team, but still, it feels like the entire world has ganged up against her. Even her supposed best friend has decided to completely ignore me, and pretend i dont exist. How does that honor her, when the going gets rough, just sod off and ignore people? And yet, it feels frustrating to keep this entire family mechanic alive, only to find that there isn't a reason to. This entire house of cards that is my family and her famiy, implodes as soon as i remove even an ounce of effort from my side. It feels like I'm living through Atlas Shrugged PS: I know, lots of dead wife posts coming from me, makes for some nice therapy to get it out there.

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[–] • 3 pts

When my father passed years ago, his family treated us like we were dead as well - within months.

Everyone vanished.

Sad, but in retrospect, no great loss.

They weren't exactly role models.

[–] • 2 pts

It's weird, these people loved me i guess, only when i did what they wanted me to do. As soon as i broke the mold or deviated or did something for myself, i always ended up with visceral hatred and scorn from all sides. So really the relationships from my family and ex mother in law, were always one directional

[–] • 1 pt

Are these mostly women? I say that because you are describing women. Most women only see men as a commodity to add money and status. If you don't have either, they view you as a donkey to be whipped into tasks for their benefit.

[–] • 0 pt

Yes they are, the men have actually been very understanding, albeit somewhat wonky at times. But still very reliable. The women, on the other hand, is a never ending uphill battle