Same here. Screaming parents led to an adult aversion to people who cannot control themselves (which also feeds my loathing of the left.) Yelling causes IQ to drop about a million points. May as well argue with an amoeba! I found that if you speak more quietly than usual, some ingrained human instinct to become quiet and vigilant (hush, the tiger is listening!) comes into play, and real communication gets done, leading to real conflict resolution.
Same here. Screaming parents led to an adult aversion to people who cannot control themselves (which also feeds my loathing of the left.) Yelling causes IQ to drop about a million points. May as well argue with an amoeba! I found that if you speak more quietly than usual, some ingrained human instinct to become quiet and vigilant (hush, the tiger is listening!) comes into play, and real communication gets done, leading to real conflict resolution.
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