Delayed gratification is proportional to intelligence, like almost every other factor necessary for a good society. I would say only about 1/2 or less of white males are intelligent enough to make a society function. The proportion of these "intelligent-enough" individuals in other populations is way lower. In niggers it's probably like <10% or even 5%, which is why they can't make a society. With Asians it's maybe around 1/3, which means they can only really make a society where the ruling castes oppress the other 2/3 into just doing what they are told. Very few women have this intelligence and literally zero non-white or East Asian women. What you are suggesting, as in a dissociation between insult and action is a great litmus test for this sort of thing. Anybody that can't handle words being spoken in front of them is an automatic fail.