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I don’t want government involved in my marriage. Happy to take a bow before God and let that be enough. What are the legalities of marriage that make it beneficial?

I don’t want government involved in my marriage. Happy to take a bow before God and let that be enough. What are the legalities of marriage that make it beneficial?

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[–] • 9 pts

I didn't want legal marriage but my husband did, so we got married. I am grateful for it now because without it I would have had no control over his funeral or where his remains ended up.

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

Civil union would take care of that.

[–] • 0 pt

Where? In California, it was only gays and seniors that could get civil unions. This was before gay marriage was legalized. I don't know if anyone can any more.

[–] • 0 pt

I would have had no control over his funeral or where his remains ended up.

Irrelevant.

He also won't get into Valhalla if he didn't die in battle. Gaaay.

[–] • 0 pt

I thought it was sword in hand.

[–] • 0 pt

Not how I learned it. Pathetic boomers that sold out their nations go to hel, no loopholes.

[–] • 9 pts

There is absolutely NO reason for a man to get married anymore. All the advantages lie with her. And forget prenups, cucked judges toss those out every day. One sob story from a lying roastie, and she gets half your shit, if not all of it. DO NOT GET MARRIED!!

[–] • 4 pts

No smart man would get married - it is an immediate loss.

[–] • 2 pts

Exactly. We live in an era where public opinion is fact that can be used in court. You will be fucked if you tie the knot.

[–] • 5 pts

I have not had any tax benefit. We signed the marriage license so that

  • my wife and I both were insistent on her taking my name.
  • adding a spouse to health/dental is available everywhere, but a lot of plans will not allow an unmarried beneficiary.
  • should anything happen to either one of us the surviving one will easily have legal rights/power of attorney.
  • parental rights for men are much more protected w a marriage.

We will never divorce so I dont see any disadvantage. But most importantly, like you seem to understand, is that the actual marriage is valid because of vows before the authority of God. There are benefits to the license of the state. But only homos think govt officials in fancy robes actually validate a marriage.

[–] • 5 pts

If a woman refuses to take the man's name, that's an absolute certain sign that it is not a real marriage, and that the union will not endure.

[–] • 4 pts

There isn't an advantage that outweighs all the disadvantages. See an attorney before you begin a long term relationship, and stay out of states that recognize common law marriage. Full disclosure: I have been married and divorced. I am now in a long term relationship. We each maintain a separate home in two adjoining states. She is included in my will, but will not be inheriting property that has been in my family for four generations. That will go to my children.

[–] • 3 pts

Legal marriage provides an increased level of stability.

Kids from married parents / intact homes do hugely better than kids from unmarried parrents!!

[–] • 0 pt

There is a case to be made for not signing the certificate and bleeding the gibs from the beast.

Better it go to white children, then another fucking shitskin welfare baby.

Ride the tiger and all that.

[–] • 2 pts

Tax benefits are pretty much it.

[–] • -1 pt

There are no tax benefits to being married.

[–] • 0 pt

false

[–] • 0 pt

Ok, what are the benefits then?

[–] • 1 pt

Well since insurance is a scam and taxes are a scam:

advantages of legal marriage for a man: none - if his wife decides to she can take his children and his possessions with the backing of the government

advantages of legal marriage for a woman: you can go from broke to rich by marrying a wealthy man then divorcing him

Don't buy insurance, don't pay taxes, don't let the government get involved with your personal relationships - control your own.

[–] • 0 pt

Whether you choose to marry legally or just religiously, get an attorney to write up a will or trust. Even if you're married, a well written legal document can trump the legal marriage, or can cover you when you don't have a legal marriage.

I married after we had a discussion on the pros and cons. Ultimately, we decided that if we were serious enough to commit via a ceremony, we may as well sign the government forms, as well.

[–] • 0 pt

A man goes from zero reproductive rights to shitty but nonzero reproductive rights.

[–] • 0 pt

It gives the wife some security. Though I wouldn't recommend it without a prenub.

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