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So how can I be a more approachable pleasant person? You guys on Poal I have no problem talking to since we're all RedPilled to the max and it's the internet. But in general society and outside of the internet, I'm trying to figure out how to be more pleasant and approachable.

And yes I have social skills for those wondering

So how can I be a more approachable pleasant person? You guys on Poal I have no problem talking to since we're all RedPilled to the max and it's the internet. But in general society and outside of the internet, I'm trying to figure out how to be more pleasant and approachable. And yes I have social skills for those wondering

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[–] • 2 pts (edited )

I've read that. You're a woman right? If you are then here's my question; does smiling make a guy more or less Alpha? I read that it can make a guy less Alpha. I've also read that it does help to smile. Which is better advice?

[–] [deleted] • 4 pts

Woman here. Definitely smile. Just not that dopey open gap soy boy smile. If you have great teeth, show them off. A shy smile is very attractive if we're speaking just between a man and woman, both available. Catch her eye, smile, then look down/away while still smiling. Repeat, then approach.

[–] • 2 pts

I am a women.
I don't think smiling would really make a man less Alpha. Is being happy less Alpha? If you are worried about it you could just smile with your eyes and not your whole face, or just focus on making your expression pleasant? I don't think someone is approachable if they are looking like they are mad or unhappy.

[–] • 1 pt

Very true. Thanks for the comment