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[–] • 7 pts

Looking for women who have exhausted all potential relationships in their personal lives isnt at all an aim you desire, TK.

Online fating is for whores and men that arent willing to accept their not being at the height of the sexual pyramid.
Unless you could be a genuine model, youre wasting your time.
Of course, if you want some desperate 6 or 7s that likely have some type of infection, shoot. Just don't forget protection.

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I could be a genuine model.

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Me too. I find that women have a hard time being intelligent around me. It's almost like I intimidate them. It's not just that I'm good looking, but that I'm intelligent too. They also have an extreme tendency to misinterpret everything I say as "flirtatious". The fact that they want to think I want them, and be able to brag to their friends about it, contributes greatly to this. In fact, I'm sure that many women have lied to their friends about me "trying to get with them" just to score status points with other females, of course, none of them caring, or even thinking, about the damage this has done to my reputation.

On top of all this, other men instinctively resent me. I'll put it this way...no guy has ever asked me to be their wing man, so I'm always the guy that shows up at the bar by himself and no one talks to. I stopped going to the bars/parties/etc. a long time ago.

Men AND women always assume I'm stupid, or, at best, don't care how smart I am, which sucks, because I have a lot to say.

I've had plenty of very satisfying sexual experiences with women, but the problem is I'd like to get married and all the "good girls" people tell me to go for are, first off, married, but also, assume I'm the definition of the kind of guy they SHOULDN'T be with because "I'm not going to be with a guy just because he's sexy", completely ignoring the fact that I'm extremely intelligent, creative, interesting, hardworking, etc. and that I've proved all this my entire life.

I can relate. All that said, I stopped using dating sites because I always got the response "How dare you use a male models photos to try to get with girls!!!!" On sites where I could verify my photos I'd hardly get any conversations because "If you're so good looking why are you on a dating site?" even though they're obviously also on there, but...female "logic"...I guess...

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Just don't forget protection.

I only raw-dog it, son. Sex is for procreation, not avoiding STDs.

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Poor TK...
That must suck.

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

Gonna side with TK on this one. I won't even bother if I'm gonna have to wrap it. If I feel the urge to wrap it up, then I'm with the wrong woman.

[–] [deleted] • 5 pts

Stick to IRL. Women on sites are flawed, will use dishonest young skinny pics, and mostly just want to yap endlessly about their problems to anyone who will listen. AVOID 🚫

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How the fuck am I supposed to meet someone IRL who isn't a vapid whore?

I live in a liberal cesspool.

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Church events.
Not because you're religious, but because you want to meet women that are.
Maintain audible skepticism throughout.

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Do stuff.

Go to places that do things your interested in.

If you play baseball in a all men’s league go join a mush ball team another day and meet some women that can actually get off their ass.

Join some club. Find someone who likes something you like already and you have something in common from the get go.

Met my wife at a cannabis lounge. Though I’d not recommend that as the best place to meet people. We had something in common.

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Women have no agency. They'll just sit there and agree with a man they really want. I've seen them change political views, religion, how they dress. Women are genetically programmed to attach themselves to a strong man, because it gave their ancestors a survival advantage.

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Jesus will help you meet a woman to penetrate. But you should marry her...

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Dude, just jerkoff

Without porn, the old fashioned way, think of your ex and if you're full it's going to go just fine, in about 2 mins max

And then that dating website idea you have right now, just won't make sense anymore... Flash news it doesn't make sense in the first place, it just seems to make sense but that's really just because you're full, it's a chemical illusion

Don't put your dick in crazy, because that's all you get on a dating sites, crazies

[–] • 5 pts

Ok coomer.

[–] • 1 pt

Yeah yeah

Go grab a girl on a dating site... Then what? Next thing you know you just fucked with somebody you barely know anything about. You think you know, but you don't

Who are those people looking for strangers for a fuck? How many dudes does she fuck every year like that?

I tell you, you're crazy, what happens on the internet stays on the internet, that's rule 1

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the old fashioned way

For me that would have been the Sears catalog, it isn't published anymore. :(

OP: Ive been around since the early BBS days, i have never met with anyone from the virtual world. I keep the two as separate as i can. I have friends that have done so, despite my warnings, and it never ended well.

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Every single time I infringed upon that rule, I ended up regretting it

I didn't do it a lot, 2 times actually, and the second time it turned out to be a disaster, with massive ramifications/consequences

Lesson learned

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There is a lot of krazy out there, i prefer to leave it out there, hehe.

Never stick your dick in krazy has been my number 1 rule when it comes to woman. Fortunately i learned it early on before my bar days.

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off topic, its always nice to meet a fellow bbs'er. I was a frequent at the temple of the screaming electron myself.

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I didnt find Totse until it hit the web and IRC, that place was knuckin futs. I grew up in farm country, things from that side of the country were relatively unknown to us county folk. I mostly dialed in state, WI and some in Shitago. Long distance BBS's were the reason behind my first job, mom hated paying those bills.

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

Bruh he's explicitly not looking for a quick fuck. Theo wants keeds dawg

[–] • 3 pts

Yeah so he's looking for serious shit

And serious shit can't be built on quicksand...

...

I remember a guy a couple of years ago, who found the love a his life etc

She finally dumped him, because his professional situation wasn't solid

Eh

What can I say? It's like that

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I recommend not thinking of your ex. You give up some of your power to them when you do that.

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Well maybe you give away some energy... Not sure if good vibes lol

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Thinking of my ex is the only thing that keeps me sane when dealing with women. My ex worshipped the ground I walked on, but I ended it with her, because I knew I could do better (and I did).

But every time I go through a dry spell, a huge argument, or shit gets me down, I think back and remember what women can and absolutely will do, how much better it can be, and how much better I am now that I'm more experienced, stronger, smarter, and more wealthy. The only thing holding me back is myself and my commitments.

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Anybody ever found anyplace anywhere that is not full of vapid whores?

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Graveyards

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Good point. Dead chicks do put out easier, and they complain less.

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Wow you getting off to this thread or something? Reply more, basement dweller

[–] • 0 pt

Get real, stop projecting

I'm not the one into nazi cosplay here...

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0K, coomer

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I had to look at the definition of that word today in urbandictionary...

I'm not into that geek culture or whatever you call that shit you seem to be part of

How is your imaginary reich today?

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Not personally but I have two friends who met on Christian Mingle. (I think that's what it is called.)
When I was single I was looking for as many vapid whores as I could find.

EDIT: Yep is the right name.

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I prefer dating within my own tribe.

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Fair enough. Is J Date still a thing?

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Haven't messed with one in years but a friend did have a good experience with match. Got married a few years later. If you go free then expect to get vapid whores and be the product. Some "free" dating sites have paid subscriptions as well. If you go that route then I'd say only deal with women that are also on a paid subscription.

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What was the professional situation of your friend back then?

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

Employed professional.

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That's it

First thing first

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I know a couple that met on kijiji. After popping out 2 kids which they had the mother's parents look after for a couple years, one or both cheated on the other. While I don't think they are divorced just yet, it's probably only a matter of time.

However, I also know a couple that did not meet online, had a kid, and the woman cheated with some nobody photographer. The guy probably doesn't know. He was a communist, so not too bright.

From what I've observed, online introductions don't work correctly. Women want to be dominated, and you can't do that if you aren't present. Join some sort of organization that does something, wait awhile to be accepted as one of the group, then make your moves.

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No, but just like real life you have to find the decent people on them.

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ITT all the reasons that I am so happy that I've been married for 30+ years and have all the intention to do another 30. She's not perfect but neither am I. Together we are both better than we would have been as singles.

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I've always avoided them myself.

Bars to as well. Bars were and/or are still the place for me to talk (science) with females (women) only and not to pick up or bring home any women. Plus you can screw up at a bar since many won't remember the next morning of anything dumb or stupid you said the night before. Anything stupid you said by mistake and/or accident if you are just learning to talk to women and/or females. That's if they even remember you (very drunk).

How I learned to not care when it came to talking to females / women for the most part myself when I was younger. It gave me a basis at least if not more than.

I'm not one for the bar life. Haven't been to one in years. Avoid bars / online dating sites for the most part myself.

Stopped going completely in my mid to late 20s. 25/26 if not 27.

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