A combination of marriage counseling and adherence to the idea of 'til death do us part'. Once the D word (divorce) was off the table (it is now a forbidden word between us), it was a commitment to the idea that we're going to be together forever, so we may as well get back to making it healthy, fun, and rewarding. It was neither easy nor quick, but it truly strengthened us as individuals, and as a couple. I am grateful every single day.
A combination of marriage counseling and adherence to the idea of 'til death do us part'. Once the D word (divorce) was off the table (it is now a forbidden word between us), it was a commitment to the idea that we're going to be together forever, so we may as well get back to making it healthy, fun, and rewarding. It was neither easy nor quick, but it truly strengthened us as individuals, and as a couple. I am grateful every single day.
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