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I got married the day before I turned 21. My husband was 31. Alot of my so called friends acted like I was crazy to get married that young.

Too many women my age do not value marriage. They slut around until they are 27 and then try to find someone to marry. Guess what honey, no one wants a used up slut. And now you only have a few good child bearing years left.

Thoughts?

I got married the day before I turned 21. My husband was 31. Alot of my so called friends acted like I was crazy to get married that young. Too many women my age do not value marriage. They slut around until they are 27 and then try to find someone to marry. Guess what honey, no one wants a used up slut. And now you only have a few good child bearing years left. Thoughts?

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[–] [deleted] • 2 pts

Married at 20, husband was 25. We’ll be celebrating 33 years married next month. And now I’ve just outed that I am an old lady hahaha. Had a very rough patch around year 12. Saw it through and couldn’t be happier.

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Holy shit 33 years! I hope to make it that long.

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That's a common time for rough patches. How did you break through the patch?

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

A combination of marriage counseling and adherence to the idea of 'til death do us part'. Once the D word (divorce) was off the table (it is now a forbidden word between us), it was a commitment to the idea that we're going to be together forever, so we may as well get back to making it healthy, fun, and rewarding. It was neither easy nor quick, but it truly strengthened us as individuals, and as a couple. I am grateful every single day.