I lost my best guy friend of seven years similarly. We were tight, talking pretty much every day, having lunch, hanging out with some vidya, etc. Turns out we were just too different. He decided to cut it off, and though I do miss the good times with him, I also realize now it was for the best.
The whole thing was about my wife, and not how you might think. He puts women on a pedestal and has been single pretty much his whole life. So I could never vent frustrations when my wife would do stupid shit, because he would always be on her side as if it was supposed to be an argument or debate. He thought I was abusive for having an argument with my wife where the both of us called each other names. Like she's allowed to, and it's justified, but I'm not.
I love my wife dearly, and she loves me probably even more. Couples fight. That's just reality. If you're not fighting at least a little bit, the relationship is shallow. He couldn't understand that and decided to nope out.
Yeah women are not a bunch of fairies who just float through the world without doing anything wrong. People who believe in equality for women should put their money where their mouths are and hold women responsible for their behavior. Women are adults and I really hate it when people coddle them and hold them to the standards of a fucking child. Some women are mentally weak and I guess its mean to pick on weak minded individuals . But thats not me and its probably not your wife.
We’ve all lost a lot of friends in the last few years.
My best friend is the same but takes the opposite stance. He's been single pretty much his whole life, and I actually have to be careful how I speak about women and my wife specifically, because I do not want to cause him to hate women more or have a negative view of my wife. He understands most women today are sluts and have upside down priorities. But it manifests quite badly.
has been single pretty much his whole life
probably closet gay anyway
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