democracy isnt the problem it is a society without social cohesion being led the alternative/converse term would be dictatorship and neither encase most of any governments. so to me, it seems like you are the one who might not understand what is meant by democracy. its like when commies talk about capitalism being so wrong yet the power disparity is one rung less than communism on the ladder of totalitarianism. national socialism would be the best ennuciation of a good government but democracy fairs much better than the rest off the alternatives.