That’s unfortunate. Many cancers trace back to viruses and risky sexual behavior. You potentially could not have suffered that had you solved these issues sooner. Your not alone, the undeveloped male syndrome is rampant due to estrogens rampant in the food supply. Look at high school photos from 40years age and today, kids use to have muscles, defined jaws, proper structure. Now they wear skinny jeans and have feminine features, this isn’t sudden dis-evolution, it’s hormones.