You can be a faggot and have a wife, ask @picman he'll confirm, imbecile. What do you imagine, that everything is black or white and there's nothing in between? How lame are you faggot? That being said, it's not the color of the nigger that matters when it comes to getting a job. Sometimes it does, often it doesn't. What truly matters is how much of a pain in the ass the new nigger is going to be. If you're even remotely suggesting you aren't going to be a total "yes sir" to your next employer, you're out already. Your employer wants a guy that will always answer with a "yes sir" when he's asked to do something, and that thing, he'll find a way to handle it, no matter what, there's no "but but but" except in very rare occasions, exceptional circumstances. You're hired to solve problems, not to create problems, period If you're too much of yourself to get that through your head and get along with it, then you don't have what it takes to an employee. It's that simple. Now if on top of that you don't have what it takes to be your own boss, to be self employed, then you have a problem