Sure, the men were wearing baby on them. The wives were telling their husbands what to do in public: what they were allowed to drink or eat. It was embarrassing for me to watch. The look on the men's faces told a story of humiliation. Men have been taught not to be toxic. Women get a total pass. If it had been only one man, I probably wouldn't have noticed. The key here is this was a public space. I understand that at home, men are expected to share looking after baby and that wives demand a lot. If the wife is smart, she understands the psychology and how far she can push. My wife knows my limit. I know hers. In public, she's smart. Even she made a similar comment about the men. It wasn't just me.