Let me confide something: about six months ago, my father confided that he does that weekly. Internally, I was like, "WT actual F?!?!?!?" But on the phone, I was like, "Really? You can do that there? How much does that cost?"
I've always thought the stigma and animosity against the pay sex industry was really stupid. If two adults want to exchange something they've earned for the 1 thing we should have absolute right to sell (our bodies) who cares? The socialists actually are pretty down with this and regulate it with STD screenings and such.
Now when we are talking spa though, it is not necessarily going all the way. More likely a BJ or a handjob. Big deal you know? let of some steam (ha ha) girl or guy makes a living, no one is hurt.
I've never done that(paid for sex). To me, the freaky thing was learning that my dad pays money to have some chick help him blow a wad. Call me a DIY lifehack kinda guy, but I learned how to jerk my own dick when I was a youngster. I am NOT going to pay an Asian immigrant chick to do something I can do more conveniently for myself.
edit: to be fair, my dad is in his 70s. So, he was a teenager in the 50s. I was a teenager in the 70s, so at least one of us was somewhat lucky that way.
Ah well there you go! Until you've been to a proper rub a dub, hard to judge. In other countries it is an accepted way of life and not a big deal like the US.
Theres a type called a Turkey bath where hot chick bathes you, then proceeds to use her hands and the rest of her body to massage you. There is a happy ending, but no penetration. It is VERY relaxing. You do nothing but lay there relaxing.
Afterwards get another bath to wash off all the oil.
IIRC it was 20-40 bucks for about a 2-3 hour deal. No timers, no rush. Just total relaxation.
Other places it is just like an add on. Discuss beforehand or not. Does not matter to the chick. Get a massage only or add on 10 bucks for a release at the end.
In some cultures it's also about health. Releasing stress and whatnot. DIY is not nearly as relaxing as the methods above.
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