I've never done that(paid for sex). To me, the freaky thing was learning that my dad pays money to have some chick help him blow a wad. Call me a DIY lifehack kinda guy, but I learned how to jerk my own dick when I was a youngster. I am NOT going to pay an Asian immigrant chick to do something I can do more conveniently for myself.
edit: to be fair, my dad is in his 70s. So, he was a teenager in the 50s. I was a teenager in the 70s, so at least one of us was somewhat lucky that way.
Ah well there you go! Until you've been to a proper rub a dub, hard to judge. In other countries it is an accepted way of life and not a big deal like the US.
Theres a type called a Turkey bath where hot chick bathes you, then proceeds to use her hands and the rest of her body to massage you. There is a happy ending, but no penetration. It is VERY relaxing. You do nothing but lay there relaxing.
Afterwards get another bath to wash off all the oil.
IIRC it was 20-40 bucks for about a 2-3 hour deal. No timers, no rush. Just total relaxation.
Other places it is just like an add on. Discuss beforehand or not. Does not matter to the chick. Get a massage only or add on 10 bucks for a release at the end.
In some cultures it's also about health. Releasing stress and whatnot. DIY is not nearly as relaxing as the methods above.
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