Men have a fixed preferences. They like big butt or they don't. Women's preferences are all based on how attractive the man is. Being raped by an attractive man is hot, being raped by an ugly one is terrifying. For a woman male attractiveness is largely tied to respect. Every time you fail a shit test you become less attractive. The idea of pegging a hot guy might seem attractive to her, but once you let her do it you'll become unattractive because only a pussy ass faggot would let himself be pegged. A filthy nigger who doesn't care about her opinions seems strong and impressive compared to a beta who simps nonstop. Your number 1 job if you want to be attractive should be to maintain and increase how much women respect you. Once you understand this all the nonsense women spew starts to make sense. She wants to hear a man she respects vent about how losing his mother left a void in his life. She doesn't want to hear a simp tell her he loves her after the first date.