Crying is sentimentality, emotions are different, they're subtle. Maybe this chick knows the difference maybe she doesn't, maybe you don't. If you get into a tense situation you feel it for hours, but it's subtle it doesn't overwhelm you. That's emotion. Sentimentality overwhelms you, that's a bitch trait. Bruce Lee said "You need emotional content", "I said emotional content, not anger. Now try again". https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QU9SsTwY5nU