That’s me in a nutshell. I still think there is something wrong with me. I’d much rather stay at home with my wife, kids, grandkids. Even before I had kids or grandkids

You always gotta think: "The kind of woman you'll meet in an _____ is the kind of woman who goes to _____."

The kind of woman you'll meet at church is a church woman. The kind of woman you'll meet at a nightclub is a skanky whore.

As Lou Reed wrote: "white, right clubbing"

Then prove it by accepting this challenge. Go out of town and assume a whole different persona. I would make panties drop pretending to be british/australian in shithole bars/poolhalls.

This is why houses used to have bars built into them or added on at some point. They didn't go out to get sloshed, they did it at home. They socially drank when they went out. Now, you have people that get sloshed at a social event and go "home" with someone that meets their biologically ingrained reproductive criteria.