Back in the 80's I was a young single E-5 on TDY orders to Ft. Bragg for 6 months. Got myself a "sponsor" at Womack Army Medical Center that was a female nurse, a Major, single, very fit and fuckable. All I had to do was keep her ashes hauled for her on the regular, and I didn't have to live in the fucking barracks. Couldn't be seen together in public because that would have given the game away, but at night in the bedroom it was a whole different story. Fair trade.