"dont judge others" was a damning phase. Everyone deserves the right to discern whether someones behaviour is degenerate or acceptable or pairs with their own moral code. When the masses accepted this phrase it opened the floodgates for every degeneracy. A simple phrase of liberal acceptance has led to this. I think it is fair to not condemn anyone at a glance till suspicions are proven and be open to be proven wrong, like the case of a tatted kid who came from darkness into the light too late, but in most cases it makes sense to judge a book by its cover. If the cover is covered in pornography you wouldnt hand it to your kids, if the cover is two men kissing you would put it back or throw it into the flames. Peoples outward apparance is the cover illustration for the novel of their life, if they are judged poorly it is their fault for illustrating such a poor cover.