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Uhh...it's pretty easy. You talk about important topics before marriage such as:

1) Valid grounds for a divorce (breaching the marital contract by e.g. cheating on your spouse, enforcing a dead bedroom, felonies, becoming an addict, committing crimes against your spouse, etc), and how they darn well had better be willing to go The Shining on you if they want out for a reason that isn't a breach of vows.

2) How coercion is unacceptable. Full stop. Whether that's medical care, joining a yoga studio, or visiting your crazy aunt Lulu, you are not allowed to coerce your spouse.

3) How broken homes are terrible for children, and creating one is only acceptable if one partner is engaging in behavior that's upticking the children's ACE scores. Disagreeing on vaccines isn't even close. Think "beating children bloody" or "smoking crack in the living room".

4) Do you by default assume the media and government are lying to you, and that any truth they do tell is accidental. If a prospective partner trusts either, you RUN.

5) You get a pre-nup to remove the divorce-for-cash-and-prizes incentive unless both partners have enough assets and income to make a potential divorce a financial net negative for both. It's not about whether you trust your partner, it's about distrusting the crooked legal system.

6) Do you trust the legal system? If they say "yes", you RUN. The courts openly hate men and deliver justice only to the politically connected or lucky, and any man or woman worth marrying will tell you as much.

7) Are the Democrats evil Communists? This doesn't mean your partner is necessarily running around with an AR-15 and a Gadsden flag, but at least (s)he needs to be onboard with the reality that Democrats are malicious Communists and cant be trusted. If the Democrats say "eat a balanced diet and exercise" you still look at them suspiciously, and you sure as heck dont let the Commies come between you and your spouse.

8) Relationship priorities. Your spouse is always more important than the mob, tv, a political party, etc.

Talk about important things, not the flipping weather or the Kardashians.

Uhh...it's pretty easy. You talk about important topics before marriage such as: 1) Valid grounds for a divorce (breaching the marital contract by e.g. cheating on your spouse, enforcing a dead bedroom, felonies, becoming an addict, committing crimes against your spouse, etc), and how they darn well had better be willing to go The Shining on you if they want out for a reason that isn't a breach of vows. 2) How coercion is unacceptable. Full stop. Whether that's medical care, joining a yoga studio, or visiting your crazy aunt Lulu, you are not allowed to coerce your spouse. 3) How broken homes are terrible for children, and creating one is only acceptable if one partner is engaging in behavior that's upticking the children's ACE scores. Disagreeing on vaccines isn't even close. Think "beating children bloody" or "smoking crack in the living room". 4) Do you *by default* assume the media and government are lying to you, and that any truth they do tell is accidental. If a prospective partner trusts either, you RUN. 5) You get a pre-nup to remove the divorce-for-cash-and-prizes incentive unless both partners have enough assets and income to make a potential divorce a financial net negative for both. It's not about whether you trust your partner, it's about distrusting the crooked legal system. 6) Do you trust the legal system? If they say "yes", you RUN. The courts openly hate men and deliver justice only to the politically connected or lucky, and any man or woman worth marrying will tell you as much. 7) Are the Democrats evil Communists? This doesn't mean your partner is necessarily running around with an AR-15 and a Gadsden flag, but at least (s)he needs to be onboard with the reality that Democrats are malicious Communists and cant be trusted. If the Democrats say "eat a balanced diet and exercise" you still look at them suspiciously, and you sure as heck dont let the Commies come between you and your spouse. 8) Relationship priorities. Your spouse is always more important than the mob, tv, a political party, etc. Talk about important things, not the flipping weather or the Kardashians.

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