My wife hated my attempts to red pill and educate her. Until we invited to our vacation home 2 of her Euro-transplant friends who had grown up under communism. I asked them about what it was like in their country in that time, and they started to fill me in. They are just a tad to the right of me and much more strident. Once the convo headed that way (and headed hard) the 3 of us went off in agreement and wonder that we all had similar views and while this lengthy discourse occurred, my wife sat quietly and listened to things which she earlier did not believe to be true and disliked me saying. Now she doesn't get quite so angry when I educate her, but she's still not in full agreement but she is coming over on some things. I think I need to seek out a few more like them, my wife had noted that the euro-wife was literally the smartest person she know - "scary smart") and invite them over for dinners, and alienate the bitches who don't know jack or shit.