> if you have any assets like a home, pension, or other expensive toys - do a pre-nup. Uhhh, no. What kind of marriage is built on involving the state's legal system as a hedge? Holy shit, if you're this distrustful of your spouse you shouldn't be getting married. Pre-nups are for New Yorker rich cunts who aren't even capable of seeing life as anything other than a financial agreement, always involving lawyers in every damn decision because they're a bunch of back-stabbing untrustworthy metrotards. Normal people get married in the witness of God, family, and friends. That's a NORMAL marriage.