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Yeah, you gotta take that with a grain of salt, though. If the cashier girl is young, she most likely doesn’t intend on doing that job forever. If she’s older, then yeah, she’s stuck and might be a bit more trouble than she’s worth.
Still, the job doesn’t matter. I think we can both agree that an ideal relationship would be one where she stays home to take care of the house and raise the kids while you go out and work.
Ah, yeah, that’s fair. Still, if your pitch comes across as you being casual and not heavily invested in what her response is, it takes the anxiety and pressure off her. The best example would be to pretend you have plans and you want her to be a part of them, but you’ll be doing them regardless of her presence.
Something like “hey, I’m going to go to this restaurant/cafe/nice, public place on X date. Would you like to join me there this weekend?” would be casual and not make her feel bad for saying no.
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