>Spending money on women should only happen when you're rewarding her for something. I was mostly talking about expenses related to transit and doing things to waste time while looking for a woman. >It really really really really sucks to get rejected over and over. It becomes easy to demonize women or insist that your real problem is something unchangeable. But that's just self-fulfilling bullshit, and the only reason rejections suck is because you haven't gotten enough of them. It takes quite a while to even find a woman to be rejected by, eventually you just realize how much time and money you've been spending and decide to cut your losses. Not much reason to keep trying something which you know won't work.