I've sam Hyde said, of you want a soul mate, get a friend/roommate who is a some guy with autism, that's not a role a girlfriend/wife is supposed to fill for you, her role is to be someone who you can tolerate being around for the rest of your life in exchange for access to her pussy and eggs

She's never going to be a connection with you at the same level as the aforementioned autistic guy, who will be the best friend soul mate you'd be looking for, but there still should ne standards, she shouldn't be bad enough that her pussy/eggs aren't worth sticking around her.

One key factor in that for her is feeling like she's with a guy who is superior to her and to whom she is inferior by comparison in as many ways as possible, she needs to be made to feel small, weak, stupid, poor, outclassed, dominated , etc. In comparison to you in order to be satisfied with you, she also needs to feel dependant on you, which means you must be a dependable provider for her, as well as someone who can defend her from that which could threaten her and that which could steal her away from you. But you shouldn't go too far with this, as she must also feel at times that she ultimately has control over you, its just a bit of a challenge for her to get it, that way she feels like she has a unique power over you that no other person has.

A better way to put it, is that she wants her partner to be her father, by which I mean she wants you to fill that masculine parental role for her. He provides to her everything she needs and some of the things she wants, a father will defend her from threats and challenges for her, a father is superior to his daughter I'm every way, he also has the power in the relationship. Yet with a certain amount of effort, the daughter has the ability to direct some of her father's actions, and she has an exclusive ability to do this (assuming she has no sisters, who in this context would be the other wives of your harem should you live in a polygamous society, but in a monogamous one, the legacy is to only children only).

Dat's right, he should spend all his free time hang'n out at da Country Western bar like da rest of us MEN!

Keep worshipping that pussy, she's never going to fuck you, unless it's a pity fuck, in which case, she's never going to love you, she's always going to find you repulsive.