I think someone would tell him dad it's not a real icon it's just there to remind you with some silliness of the pointing added. As for not gay so true and a real parent would laugh if they honestly admitted they kept forgetting and if told the time put into the wallpaper they'd appreciate their child lovingly with humor taking that time just for them, at least that's what I'd like think since I'd realize that sacrifice of time to make me less guilty feeling calling them all the time and just have it there for me. :D