Good point but we all are sinners and we can confess and marry if we were weak and then wanted to do the proper thing later. We are human and we fuckup "story of my life" and if we really believe our souls are like neon signs that the Lord will see without them being visible to anyone else he sees us now and at our last breath and knows our entire life before our birth. We are all one and the Lord is all so the Lord is just seeing what the Lord has set into motion.