Though people say it's a terrible song and I cannot remember the year but one year more "white people" people got wed and that song was the one they chose as their song for the wedding. That is a good song for that or to tell a woman you care for her more than your words themselves can convey as in you want her for a wife so your right, it is a nice song. Now if you're a player or have been played then it's likely you would hate that song, like a trap for the person that falls for it.