My wife and i had on two occasions decide to terminate due to medical issues. It was the hardest thing we had to do in our lives and we held both of our children when they were born at 13 weeks. That was 2 and 3 years ago. We had them cremated and still have their cremains. We now have a very healthy 1 yr old daughter and am planning for another. Abortion is disgusting but ive given up on the topic. Its a population control measure and well im glad my future offspring will have less competition. I hope no one has to go through what we did but its part of life.