One of my earliest childhood memories, clear as day is my mum and me being at doc Förnzler's office. Him pulling back my foreskin and telling my mum, "It's too tight, we must cut." They both look at me. They tell me it's normal and plenty of kids have it done. I say no. Years later I find out that males can experience defloration during their first intense sexual encounter. It's normal for women. Men have been robbed..