I agree with not playing their word games per se. But once I understood the dialectic in a structured way, I can now subversively use it. It's like a shitty immoral wrestling move, you need to learn the move before you learn a defense and counter-offense to it. This is why I recommend looking into it. It's gay bullshit though, I'll give you that. People who employ these strategies are sub 80IQ retards ... but knowing that is helpful.