It's different for every person. Like the picture of the guy in a heavy coat during warm weather. Switching to a smaller lighter gun and maybe a pocket holster would be better. If you carry in a jacket pocket put your reload or coins (pennies, quarters, etc) in the opposite pocket to even out the weight. Where you live can be a factor as well. Wearing tactical or camouflage clothing might make you stand out in a suburb or city but be everyday wear in a small rural town. You can dress around the gun/holster or have different combinations for different seasons/occasions.