I have used Unique (5.2-5.4 grains I think) and Titegroup (4.2 grains). I carry an LC9. Those should put you in the ballpark of 1100fps. Hornady's charts say that bullet is designed to expand between 800 and 1400 fps.

I have had the best luck with Titegroup as it's less sooty and is low flash even from a 3" barrel. Since you are reloading, I would encourage you to experiment to see what works best for your pistol. Chasing factory performance may make you miss a way more accurate load.

Calling fudd lore on not carrying reloads.

Ill carry box ammo for self defense. But i want to reload anyway, for practice, or shtf time when legal concerns dont exist. I just bought a 9mm springfield xdm elite precision, 5.25", 22+1, and shot some 124gr hornady custom xtp through it and god damn. New gun, unfamiliar trigger, and it still shot better than any sidearm ive ever shot. And i shoot revolvers a lot, and pistols more than most folks. Super impressed with this gun, and that ammo, and i want to come as close as possible to handloading ammo that will shoot the same. Got a fuckton of those bullets and new starline brass, a thousand primers, just need to figure out which powder would be best to use to duplicate those factory loads. If you dont mind, ill pm you after i chronograph the factory ammo out of my gun. Like i said, new to the reloading game, could use a brain to pick. My dad loads for long range rifle shooting but has never done any pistol loading. Hes a good source of equipment and general knowledge though, but i want somebody who actually loads this stuff, whose brain i can pick. Thanks for the reply. Not a glownigger, promise.