fasting and serious commitment to exercise? no, something ain't right. was she fat or just thick? maybe we have different ideas of what fat is. i mean, i don't want anyone working out 4 hours a day 6 days a week to be not "thick."
No, she was fat. Fat to the point where a seatbelt extender was needed. As I said, I saw plenty of pictures of her as a youngster when she lived in Switzerland (Swiss by birth) and she was always big. The rest of her family was rail thin, as most Europeans of the 70s were.
Towards the end of the time I knew her, she just started to get deeper into this "The world is against me" mindset and withdrew, which caused her to get bigger. I assume that she's probably unable to get off the couch by this point.
reach out ot her if you can. show her that the world isn't all bad.
I've tried many times. She recessed into the pink hair femenazi mode. It got worse when she lost her good job because she refused to show up.
I held my hand out for many years, helped her get a couple of new jobs (that she lost because she argued with everyone and they were all wrong,) and tried tried tried. She simply wasn't interested, and I got tired of being treated like shit.
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