Get a mistress. Edit: Actually. seriously, what you need to do is to open a separate bank account, and deposit your money into that. Then cancel the cell phone plan, and return the phones. Buy pay-as-you-go flip phones for your wife and daughter. Cancel the cable. Cancel all internet services. You do the grocery shopping yourself, so she can't skim money from the grocery budget. She's obviously enjoying too much of that sweet sweet White Privilege, so strip her of some of her comfort perks and see if that distracts her from her goal of becoming a nigger's mammy.