How well do you like your job and cow-orkers? Basically, how much Napoleon complex can you deal with before it becomes untenable? District engineer at my first post college job was exactly as you described. Made it 3 years with him, but he was ultimately the reason I left.
I did some soul searching afterwards, and made mental notes of abuse I would never take again. I stuck to my guns, and quit another job in 2005 without anything else lined up for reasons. It was dicey going living off savings for 3 months, but it was the right thing to do. Point being:
Stand your ground until it isn't worth defending, but have a definite limit in mind. Tough to do when you've got a family to support, but you'll sleep easier and won't loathe yourself if you stick to your guns.
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Thank you. My coworkers are almost all top notch, great bunch of people and very competent in their jobs. Some have been at the outfit for almost as long as I, approaching 4 decades.
There's a limit of crap I'm willing to take. If and when that is reached, there will be a gradual change in my work ethics. Lining up something new that's also worthwhile is not easy at my age. Some things still have to fall into place until my wife and I reach relative financial independence. For now, it gets closer each passing month.
Love the idea of being a nuisance. I'll keep that in my bag o' tricks. :)
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