It's all platitudes. Very few are too stupid to understand that there is an intelligence gap. Very few will object to picking a house or apartment based on racial demographics. They say things that they think are the proper thing to say. They don't actually care if it is true or not. To a girl saying kind things makes you a kind person. You have to realize that girls also have a lower IQ and an emotional though process. If you had a hard time swaying most girls your relationship must have been super short with low trust. The reality is that the most liberal women are that way because they see minorities as mentally handicapped and they are driven to "defend them".