GRATZ!
Get a midwife trust me.
A competent midwife can be a great asset. They can help guide you through many issues. I recommend studying up on if any medical situations develop also. My wife gave birth at a birthing clinic while she had preeclampsia. It developed into HELLP and DIC. The doctor's negligence killed my wife and almost killed my daughter. If we had a good midwife and my wife had given birth at a hospital I know she would be alive today.
I'm sorry that happened to your family, brother. I've often likened birthing injuries/fatalities to disabled/dead veterans, honorable ways to go.
Yeah. My wife was a special person. She was always of the mindset that as long as our daughter was ok she didn't care what happened to her. If anyone deserves the title "mother" it's her.
Damn bro. My wife almost died with both our kids. I cant even fathom. Prayers,
Yeah man. You know the fear. Having that fear realized is the worst thing I'll ever deal with. I have so much respect now for mothers. And it upsets me when I see a POS mother.
And a doula!
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