I believe most men do not have a clue or just more like a hint. I watched a lot of lesbian porn but decided to use it more like educational material then just jacking films. If you watch you can tell the fake lesbians the good lesbians and the ok ones just from the eyes of the women on the receiving end. I found God now so all of that including thinking about it visually is off limits though I know if I do find a good wife I'll be able to bring something to the marriage since I'm surely not packing but the tongue is the great equalizer for the average man but unlike a lot of guys I just decided without having to meet that woman that told me I was not huge or worse married then find out she's dissatisfied after a baby or 2 when she owns half my shit so it's to late to learn or practice then to get good. Yeah most women would look at me and then just think he doesn't know shit but my perverted mind didn't want to be alone so I took the alone time and it's been over 10 years this time before I found God since the pain of breakups rips my soul apart. The last one was not good at all and the one before her I would have married or died for but I let her go foolishly. I was so stupid and I'm not ashamed to admit that at all just do not need that feeling of loss again so I hope God picks one soon since that one I loved might have been him when I hadn't discovered him yet and that is even more sorrowful on my part since my own words and actions destroyed it. I hope the young guys here are paying attention since that wonderful one is so rare so don't let that wonderful one go or fuck it up. Let my mistakes and pain serve as your lesson since I walked past her on the street a week later and broke into sobbing tears. I didn't care if anyone saw though I didn't want her to see and feel bad because of my dumb decision.