The property thing should get thrown out, your property. Intimidation seems minor. The only one I'd be worried about is the domestic violence charge, but if you didn't harm anyone I don't see anything coming of it. Get a good lawyer. Be the best you can be while this is playing out. I think you'll be OK, maybe some probation. I know from experience how your mind will constantly play it out to the worst outcome. Be prepared for that, but don't let your mind squirrel cage out of control with worry, that is unhealthy and unproductive. I know you said you want to work things out with her, but maybe that is not for the best. IDK. Just don't force anything, at all.