https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19558447 Personality doesn't really matter. Think of it this way. What do people say about tall, dominant men? They're confident. What do people say about short, dominant men? They have a Napoleon Complex. If a tall, handsome man is sexually forward with a woman, it may be regarded as hot. If a short, ugly man is sexually forward with a woman, it is regarded as creepy. If personality really mattered all that much in dating, why do dating websites have profile pictures? Why do most Tinder users not read the bios, and swipe solely based on the profile picture? At the end of the day, I feel for ugly, short men. I happen to know a few myself, people, who by my judge of character, are really awesome dudes. But my one friend is 5' 2", ugly, and balding at age 23. He has a great job, is a really hard worker, and is as friendly as can be. Can you honestly, at the end of the day, tell me that he has a chance in the modern dating world? I'm afraid to ask him, but I think he is a virgin. And when I hear women, otherwise rational women, talk about him, it really disgusts me. He asked a girl out on a date, once. I heard her talk about it later. She said it was the creepiest thing of all time. And I know this dude. He isn't a creep. But when an ugly man with a good personality asks out a woman, it is considered creepy. And I think thats fucking sad. So I don't like it when people beat up on lonely men who just want to be loved, but don't have any chance in hell. It isn't fucking right.